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		<title>Case Study #011 &#8211; Ratheon Aircraft Services</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 16:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gina Crowley</dc:creator>
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Ratheon Aircraft Services increases workflow efficiency by 77%
Proximity does not equal compatibility.
Client: Ratheon Aircraft Services
Location: Atlantic City, New Jersey
Workplace communication challenges are inevitable. However, when moving two quarreling groups together in the same room led to more of the same (avoidance and in-fighting), Ratheon Aircraft Services contacted Catchfire Learning to step in. Before attending our [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Ratheon Aircraft Services increases workflow efficiency by 77%</h1>
<p>Proximity does not equal compatibility.</p>
<p><span id="more-165"></span><strong>Client: </strong>Ratheon Aircraft Services<br />
<strong>Location:</strong> Atlantic City, New Jersey</p>
<p>Workplace communication challenges are inevitable. However, when moving two quarreling groups together in the same room led to more of the same (avoidance and in-fighting), Ratheon Aircraft Services contacted Catchfire Learning to step in. Before attending our workshop, these two feuding departments (both vital to generating customer invoices) were taking an average of nearly 3o days to create and send the customer invoices!</p>
<p>During the course of our <a href="http://www.catchfirelearning.com/temp/?page_id=12">4-Day Flashpoint workshop</a>, we worked with both teams to identify several key areas where communication was breaking down as well as devised ways to work through and resolve their long-standing issues.</p>
<p>During our post-workshop followup, we were pleased to find that, after working through the major issues in the workshop, and applying what they learned to their everyday work environment, the average time to generate the invoice decreased from roughly 30 days to a mere 7 days!</p>
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		<title>Face your Communication Fears</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:12:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gina Crowley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OUR PERSONAL AND BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS create opportunities for us to practice acts of courage on a daily basis. What constitutes an act of courage depends on the person involved. What’s frightening to one individual may be “no big deal” for another. For many people, standing up to others, especially to someone with more power is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">OUR PERSONAL AND BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS create opportunities for us to practice acts of courage on a daily basis. What constitutes an act of courage depends on the person involved. What’s frightening to one individual may be “no big deal” for another. For many people, standing up to others, especially to someone with more power is extremely difficult. For a tough and sassy type admitting he or she was wrong may be a personal challenge.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">EITHER SITUATION requires the individual to move out of his or her comfort zone and practice new ways of communicating.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Good communication is a skill that requires practice. You may not get it right from the start; the important thing is to keep trying. If things don’t go well the first time, give yourself a “do over” and fix it. I’m not saying you should have the same conversation over and over again. I’m talking about continuing a previous conversation after tempers have receded, or clearing up a misunderstanding once you’ve had time to think about the situation.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">My friend Carolyn had one of those courageous moments. She was on the receiving end of an ugly conversation with her co-worker, Bruce. He interrupted her, accused her of dropping the ball, ordered her to fix his problem immediately and then stormed off.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Later that day Carolyn went to his office. Although she was nervous and not sure what to say, she remained calm.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">“I didn’t like the way our conversation went earlier today,” she said.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">“You were angry, but you didn’t have the whole story.” You would hope that after gathering her courage and confronting Bruce face-to-face, Carolyn’s efforts would merit a worthy reception. Instead, Bruce got fired up all over again. Carolyn stood her ground. “Let’s not get defensive,” she said. “I just wanted to straighten things out between us. I really didn’t appreciate the way you treated me earlier, and I don’t like how you are talking to me right now.”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">“I don’t know what you’re talking about,” was Bruce’s response.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">When Carolyn told me about the whole ordeal, she was wondering what she did wrong. “Not a thing!” I said. I reminded her that she left her comfort zone, spoke up for herself, and was teaching Bruce how she wanted to be treated, and these were all good things.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">In her book, The Joy Diet, Martha Beck says every time you take a new risk and survive it, you gain confidence. As you continue taking chances you will discover the things that used to intimidate you now seem manageable. It doesn’t mean you’re not frightened; if you weren’t, there would be no courage. It means being afraid and doing it anyway.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Even Carolyn’s story has a happy ending. After their conversation, Bruce began treating her with a courtesy and respect he had never shown before. According to Carolyn, “It was worth every awkward moment.”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Having the courage to go through with a difficult conversation doesn’t mean both sides will speak calmly and listen without interruption. It does mean you will grow and evolve. You’ll be different because you tried something different.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">So, even if the conversation isn’t pretty, the end result can be beautiful.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">~Gina Crowley</div>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-244" title="Intense conversation" src="http://www.catchfirelearning.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/iStock_000008534837Small-300x199.jpg" alt="Intense conversation" />OUR PERSONAL AND BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS create opportunities for us to practice acts of courage on a daily basis. What constitutes an act of courage depends on the person involved. What’s frightening to one individual may be “no big deal” for another. For many people, standing up to others, especially to someone with more power is extremely difficult. For a tough and sassy type admitting he or she was wrong may be a personal challenge.</p>
<p><span id="more-101"></span></p>
<p>EITHER SITUATION requires the individual to move out of his or her comfort zone and practice new ways of communicating.</p>
<p>Good communication is a skill that requires practice. You may not get it right from the start; the important thing is to keep trying. If things don’t go well the first time, give yourself a “do over” and fix it. I’m not saying you should have the same conversation over and over again. I’m talking about continuing a previous conversation after tempers have receded, or clearing up a misunderstanding once you’ve had time to think about the situation.</p>
<p>My friend Carolyn had one of those courageous moments. She was on the receiving end of an ugly conversation with her co-worker, Bruce. He interrupted her, accused her of dropping the ball, ordered her to fix his problem immediately and then stormed off.</p>
<p>Later that day Carolyn went to his office. Although she was nervous and not sure what to say, she remained calm.</p>
<p><em>“I didn’t like the way our conversation went earlier today,”</em> she said.</p>
<p><em>“You were angry, but you didn’t have the whole story.”</em> You would hope that after gathering her courage and confronting Bruce face-to-face, Carolyn’s efforts would merit a worthy reception. Instead, Bruce got fired up all over again. Carolyn stood her ground. “Let’s not get defensive,” she said. “I just wanted to straighten things out between us. I really didn’t appreciate the way you treated me earlier, and I don’t like how you are talking to me right now.”</p>
<p><em>“I don’t know what you’re talking about,”</em> was Bruce’s response.</p>
<p>When Carolyn told me about the whole ordeal, she was wondering what she did wrong. “Not a thing!” I said. I reminded her that she left her comfort zone, spoke up for herself, and was teaching Bruce how she wanted to be treated, and these were all good things.</p>
<p>In her book, The Joy Diet, Martha Beck says every time you take a new risk and survive it, you gain confidence. As you continue taking chances you will discover the things that used to intimidate you now seem manageable. It doesn’t mean you’re not frightened; if you weren’t, there would be no courage. It means being afraid and doing it anyway.</p>
<p>Even Carolyn’s story has a happy ending. After their conversation, Bruce began treating her with a courtesy and respect he had never shown before. According to Carolyn, “It was worth every awkward moment.”</p>
<p>Having the courage to go through with a difficult conversation doesn’t mean both sides will speak calmly and listen without interruption. It does mean you will grow and evolve. You’ll be different because you tried something different.</p>
<p>So, even if the conversation isn’t pretty, the end result can be beautiful.</p>
<p>~Gina Crowley</p>
<pre>Originally appeared in Women’s Focus Magazine, June 2007</pre>
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		<title>The Blame Game</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gina Crowley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m running late, rushing out the door to pick
up the kids from school, practice, lessons, or
a friend’s house, and it’s all because of HIM
(my husband, boss, son…even the dog’s not
immune). Once again I am playing the blame
game, and I realize I have three choices:
Choice #1: Blame someone else
Most of us learned early in life to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">I’m running late, rushing out the door to pick</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">up the kids from school, practice, lessons, or</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">a friend’s house, and it’s all because of HIM</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">(my husband, boss, son…even the dog’s not</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">immune). Once again I am playing the blame</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">game, and I realize I have three choices:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Choice #1: Blame someone else</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Most of us learned early in life to blame the</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">other person. It’s a natural instinct for selfpreservation.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Just listen to young children:</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">“I didn’t do it.” “It’s not my fault.” “He did</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">it.” Blaming someone is better than getting</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">lectured or punished or admitting we’re not</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">perfect.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">So, as I’m speeding down the road to pick</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">up the kids, I’m feeling very self-righteous</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">because I’m right, and more importantly</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">HE is wrong. Unfortunately, it usually isn’t</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">completely someone else’s fault and I’m still</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">running late.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Choice #2: Self-Blame – “I’m so stupid”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">If I decide to look deeper at the chain of</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">events, I might see what I did to contribute to</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">the situation. The challenge here is to accept</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">responsibility without feeling too bad about</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">myself. Being overly self-critical isn’t productive</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">and is damaging to my self-esteem. If I</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">am busy beating myself up, I’m probably not</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">looking for a solution to the real problem.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Choice #3: NO BLAME</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">The best option is to stop worrying about who</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">is at fault and decide how to prevent the situation</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">from happening in the future. Get past the</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">anger. Instead, take a deep breath and adopt</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">the attitude, “Isn’t that interesting?” Blaming</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">doesn’t fix anything; it just makes everyone</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">feel worse. If you can look at the situation objectively,</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">you may just realize you have options</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">to help manage your frustrations. And, next</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">time you can have a different result.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Take a tip from “Murphy” and plan for the</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">unexpected so that – if what can go wrong,</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">does go wrong – it doesn’t ruin your day.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Next time, I plan to leave 15 minutes early. And</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">to be honest, we don’t even have a dog.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">~Gina Crowley</div>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-247" title="Serious looking businessman with copyspace" src="http://www.catchfirelearning.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/iStock_000010361593Small-300x199.jpg" alt="Serious looking businessman with copyspace" />I’m running late, rushing out the door to pick up the kids from school, practice, lessons, or a friend’s house, and it’s all because of HIM (my husband, boss, son…even the dog’s not immune). Once again I am playing the blame game, and I realize I have three choices:</p>
<p><strong>Choice #1: Blame someone else<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">Most of us learned early in life to blame the other person. It’s a natural instinct for self-preservation.</span></strong></p>
<p>Just listen to young children:<br />
“I didn’t do it.”   “It’s not my fault.”   “He did it.”</p>
<p>Blaming someone is better than getting lectured or punished or admitting we’re not perfect. So, as I’m speeding down the road to pick up the kids, I’m feeling very self-righteous because I’m right, and more importantly HE is wrong. Unfortunately, it usually isn’t completely someone else’s fault and I’m still running late.</p>
<p><span id="more-99"></span></p>
<p><strong>Choice #2: Self-Blame – “I’m so stupid”<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">If I decide to look deeper at the chain of events, I might see what I did to contribute to the situation. The challenge here is to accept responsibility without feeling too bad about myself. Being overly self-critical isn’t productive and is damaging to my self-esteem. If I am busy beating myself up, I’m probably not looking for a solution to the real problem.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>Choice #3: NO BLAME<br />
<span style="font-weight: normal;">The best option is to stop worrying about who is at fault and decide how to prevent the situation from happening in the future. Get past the anger. Instead, take a deep breath and adopt the attitude, “Isn’t that interesting?” Blaming doesn’t fix anything; it just makes everyone feel worse. If you can look at the situation objectively, you may just realize you have options to help manage your frustrations. And, next time you can have a different result.</span></strong></p>
<p>Take a tip from “Murphy” and plan for the unexpected so that – if what can go wrong, does go wrong – it doesn’t ruin your day. Next time, I plan to leave 15 minutes early. And to be honest, we don’t even have a dog.</p>
<p>~Gina Crowley</p>
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		<title>Adjust your Programming</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gina Crowley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Athletes have been using a “preprogramming” technique for years. They visualize their best performance, picture themselves winning the race, and imagine how they will feel receiving their award. I’m not convinced that preprogramming is an exact science, but we do tend to get exactly what we expect.
That’s why I would rather believe the best will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Athletes have been using a “preprogramming” technique for years. They visualize their best performance, picture themselves winning the race, and imagine how they will feel receiving their award. I’m not convinced that preprogramming is an exact science, but we do tend to get exactly what we expect.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">That’s why I would rather believe the best will happen and risk being disappointed, than assume the worst and have the satisfaction of being right.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">My favorite example is a business trip I took with my colleague, Dan. We were flying home from Tampa, Florida on a Friday afternoon when a brief thunderstorm closed the airport for 30 minutes. Our flight was delayed and we missed our connection through St. Louis. Our names were added to a waiting list for the next flight out, which happened to be the last flight to Wichita. Although we arrived with plenty of time to make the connection, so did a crowd of other people trying to get on that same plane.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Dan wasn’t optimistic. “Well, I guess we’ll be stuck drinking beers here in St. Louis tonight,” he said.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">“No, no, no, Dan,” I argued. “You have to think positive. Imagine the ticket agent saying, ‘Passengers Crowley and Nelson, please come to the ticket counter.’”</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">He grimaced and shook his head (Dan’s cup was obviously half empty).</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">In the next few minutes, the ticket agent’s voice did come over the intercom. “Passenger Crowley, please come to the counter,” it said.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">As I collected my boarding pass, I smiled sheepishly at my co-worker who was still sitting there getting exactly what he expected. I waved good-bye and headed down the jetway. I was glad he couldn’t see the enormous grin that engulfed my whole face. I couldn’t hold back a big “Woo Hoo!” I’d be home with my family tonight, sleeping in my own bed.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">Expect the best &#8211; you just might get it!</div>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow: hidden; position: absolute; left: -10000px; top: 0px; width: 1px; height: 1px;">~Gina Crowley</div>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-245" title="Beautiful business woman with laptop." src="http://www.catchfirelearning.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/iStock_000009290410Small-300x199.jpg" alt="Beautiful business woman with laptop." />Athletes have been using a “preprogramming” technique for years. They visualize their best performance, picture themselves winning the race, and imagine how they will feel receiving their award. I’m not convinced that preprogramming is an exact science, but we do tend to get exactly what we expect.</p>
<p>That’s why I would rather believe the best will happen and risk being disappointed, than assume the worst and have the satisfaction of being right.</p>
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<p>My favorite example is a business trip I took with my colleague, Dan. We were flying home from Tampa, Florida on a Friday afternoon when a brief thunderstorm closed the airport for 30 minutes. Our flight was delayed and we missed our connection through St. Louis. Our names were added to a waiting list for the next flight out, which happened to be the last flight to Wichita. Although we arrived with plenty of time to make the connection, so did a crowd of other people trying to get on that same plane.</p>
<p>Dan wasn’t optimistic. “Well, I guess we’ll be stuck drinking beers here in St. Louis tonight,” he said.</p>
<p>“No, no, no, Dan,” I argued. “You have to think positive. Imagine the ticket agent saying, ‘Passengers Crowley and Nelson, please come to the ticket counter.’”</p>
<p>He grimaced and shook his head (Dan’s cup was obviously half empty).</p>
<p>In the next few minutes, the ticket agent’s voice did come over the intercom. “Passenger Crowley, please come to the counter,” it said.</p>
<p>As I collected my boarding pass, I smiled sheepishly at my co-worker who was still sitting there getting exactly what he expected. I waved good-bye and headed down the jetway. I was glad he couldn’t see the enormous grin that engulfed my whole face. I couldn’t hold back a big “Woo Hoo!” I’d be home with my family tonight, sleeping in my own bed.</p>
<p>Expect the best &#8211; you just might get it!</p>
<p>~Gina Crowley</p>
<pre>Originally appeared in Women’s Focus Magazine, May 2007</pre>
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		<title>Case Study #024 &#8211; Q Corporation</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gina Crowley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It takes two to tango.
Two employees find that, for the good of the team, a willing attitude is best.

Client: Q Corporation
Location: Wichita, Kansas
With about 20 full-time employees, there are bound to be communication and teamwork problems. Q Corporation fit the bill. Prior to our involvement, there were two employees in particular who avoided one another [...]]]></description>
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<p>Two employees find that, for the good of the team, a willing attitude is best.</p>
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<p><strong>Client: </strong>Q Corporation<br />
<strong>Location:</strong> Wichita, Kansas</p>
<p>With about 20 full-time employees, there are bound to be communication and teamwork problems. Q Corporation fit the bill. Prior to our involvement, there were two employees in particular who avoided one another at all costs, speaking only on rare occasion and and usually when it was too late! Two employees bickering may not seem like a big deal but, in a small organization, even the smallest rift can cause ripples.</p>
<p>Through our work, we discovered that the disagreement began, not as disagreement with each other per se, but regarding a particular management decision made 12 years prior! That decision turned one against the other, beginning a long, drawn-out ordeal. Employees, rather than getting the two employees in a room to discuss a work-related issue, were forced to have two separate conversations in order to &#8220;keep the peace&#8221;.</p>
<p>After our course, and making amends, the two employees both agreed that being &#8220;best friends&#8221; was probably out of the question but did agree that, for the good of the team, they would share important work-related information willingly and promptly. The whole team was grateful to have this burden lifted.</p>
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